Monday, March 05, 2007

天有不測風雲,人有旦夕禍福 Life is like a passing cloud


早上十一點多,跟同事喝完茶,正要回辦公室,對面銀行大門剛有輛十字車響著警號,急速離開,心想一定是緊急狀况,但也盼望不是大問題。。。誰知吃午餐時得悉原來是我們的backroom staff 突然在辦公室暈倒,人工呼吸後也沒有反應,在十字車內去世了。。。

好一個當頭棒,沒有可能是勤奮的Beng Chye,上星期三我們一班同事剛請一班backroom staff吃飯,多謝他們在過去一年的幫忙,Beng Chye 還凑巧坐在我右邊,整頓晚餐談笑風生,互訴工作的壓力,小孩的成長等等。。。誰也想不到Beng Chye 不知不覺的離開我們當中。。。

如果說我們驚慌傷心,我可想象他妻兒的驚訝不措,傷心欲絕的心情。。。十四歲和七歲的孩子,唉。。。寫不下去。。。

衹想說希望我們珍惜生命,珍惜眼前人,一切都不是理所當然,也不要太執着,順境逆境也要感恩,因為我知道神會給予我最好的,有可能不是我所要的,但我深信這一定是最好的。。。

In appreciation of our backroom staff n their support for the past year, we had CNY dinner with a group of them last Wednesday。 Beng Chye from payment department was seated on my right hand side, and we just chatted, joked and ate the night away in laughter n fun. It is still clear in my mind of all the conversation and even the food we ate.

Fast forward to this morning 11am, I just finished my morning tea with one of my colleagues; on my way back to office, we saw an ambulance sounding its siren driving off presumably to the hospital. In my heart, I was hoping it was not a serious case. During lunchtime, found out that it was Beng Chye who fainted in the office and CPR was performed on him; the ambulance took him away to A&E. Shocked by the news, we still prayed hard that he would be ok. But when I reached office at 2pm, the news of his death took the whole office by surprise.

In disbelief, we all mumbled how life is short, and how he was in the pink of health; and I related the stories he told of his kids, his family, his work n his stress during that dinner. It seemed so surreal.

One thought kept popping up in my mind: Don't take anything for granted...not life, not people, not even your pet. Treasure your loved ones NOW...

"And now, Lord, what do I wait for? My hope is in YOU." Psalm 39:7

15 comments:

  1. mommydearest: 別難過哦!天有不測之風雲,真的一點沒錯! 我希望他的太太及兒女沒有因此經濟有問題而生活受到影響便好了。

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  2. angfoo

    他的太太是家庭主婦,我們也很替他們擔心,希望公司有幫員工買保險啦。我們已立刻為他家人籌集帛金,以表一點心意。太突然,無病無痛,又盡責盡力。。。

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  3. 知道是那裡出了問題嗎?

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  4. 就像馬兆俊
    也是突然的昏倒就這樣去世了
    大家平常還是要做健康檢查
    好好照顧身體吧~!

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  5. 真的很令人難過
    畢竟 人生都很多時候很難說

    聖經說
    生有時 死有時

    只是很多時候 都要面對這種錯愕的狀況
    求神真的是給這個同事
    留下來的家庭 有一個好的照顧

    真的很難過 希望他的家庭在上帝的愛中
    可以得到安慰 經濟上可以紓解

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  6. 說得對啊
    不太執着就是了
    開開心心過每一天

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  7. Tendy

    Newspapers say he died of heart attack...:(

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  8. icecreampuff, 塔塔 & Iris

    As Christians, our hope is in the Lord and we are not afraid of death and we know we are going to a better place. Let's pray for the ones who don't know our Lord Jesus Christ as their personal savior... what a loss!

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  9. 其實我都覺得人是好化學的,很多時都會悄然的走,剩下來的就是最難過!
    願他的家人得到支持!

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  10. 11

    所以我們真的要珍惜每一分每一秒,每一人。。。

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  11. Was he a Christian? If he was, that means he moves to a news HOUSE(although it's hard to believe such news)!
    Worry about his family, the children are still small...

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  12. 真的天有不測之風雲,Only God is in control of all things, may God bless and comfort his family!

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  13. Elaine

    He wasn't a Christian, and the only bread winner in the family.... sigh...

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  14. Mrs Leung

    Yes, that is why we just have to be right with God every moment everyday...

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  15. I am so sorry to hear that. Hope his family have a good grieve and be strengthened by God's words.

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